A Person I Use to Know peers back into the emotional evaluation of their life. The many emotional deposits and withdrawals that were made that impacted them to the life they have now.
They find their net value or esteem of these emotional interpretations and perceptions of self. They find the importance of analyzing and evaluating from time to time - with emotional self of expressive memories and actions embarked upon that was shared with others.
This Person I Use to Know is me. I still capture and evaluate many aspects of my life. Birthdays, holidays, celebrations and even the passing of those who were in my life who have now been laid to rest. For I have always found the motivation to proceed forward through all circumstances by accepting, acknowledging and appreciating the life I have lived so far. I feel this important quality is something that every one should do.
To know and become familiar in learning to like the Person I Use to Know in self; is a quality that could benefit others as well too. That's why I share all this.
For these beneficial traits and reflections I do have, did contribute and helped me find healthy answers to my life and motivation to continue in life - when at times the circumstances were so overwhelming that I only truly had myself to rely on and what my own imagination could think of or my fearless techniques to call upon to find what I needed to create solutions for me.
To become aware of: where we have been, where we have stood, where we have fell, and how we keep getting right back up is a personal motivation in self that only each individual can give their individuality to achieve and obtain for their own personal beliefs. To validate and appreciate who you are. These positive entities become so valuable that no circumstances can take them away either.
In summaries, projections, and analogies of our own life and self; it is there where we will find our peace or our torment. It basically comes down to healthy or unhealthy. No shame in that.
The only shame that can ever come in a person's life is by denying their self the mirror ability to be true to self in every aspect that a human being is and can be. To lose out on life due to one's own denial, ignorance or failure to accept and appreciate self is still the greatest living and breathing suicide of internal potential that one could do or hope to be and achieve.
It is never easy to sit back with a mirror and gaze into one's eyes and say I am this or I am that without input, influence or life's circumstances or verbal words of others to give and take from who we are as individuals. But I suspect each of us carry our own unhealthiness internally produced by others - as much as - we carry our unhealthiness produced strictly and primarily by our self in solitude or solo moments too.
We are each depositors into each other that we meet and share with. We are also withdrawals upon each other too. Learning new skills to create more healthier alternatives of deposits and withdrawals to each other can only help something grow to prosper even more and something detriment to change into a more positive and healthier fulfillment of continual effectiveness.
My new emotional word to learn today was Dismay. Interesting - for all the vocabulary associates of Dismay - my interpretation of understanding of this word and its function is as an action word. Mostly a verb or adjective even when its primary literal meaning clarifies as a noun basically. But the cause and effects of Dismay leave me to understand it in my life as a verb or action word.
To strip one of their courage or to produce fear in their sensitive vulnerabilities of security is to leave a state of emotional dismay behind. Whether as a direct action caused by pending job loss or employment changes or demoralizing verbal manipulation that leaves another to feel shame or depression and disheartened and at fault or blame.
Dismay is the most powerful silent weapon of emotional demise that I have read and learned thus far. The perception of self or production of dismay by others can lead solitude into such a horrible unhealthy spiral that it's consuming wasting it does to valuable entities and resources in the brain that it causes the most of literacy educated to use this knowledge as a tool to control.
As abusers and criminals produce dismay by their actions of selfish harmful behaviors and selfish interests without regards to the consequences they produce upon others. They want to create unhealthy in others by the actions of immorality or unlawfulness they do.
On the flip side of commerce there are supervisors, managers, CEO, and bosses who use the emotional tool of Dismay against their employees to control them using fear or demoralizing verbal threats of taking away the financial survival of their employees too.
Dismay will create insubordination that devalues and inhumanely can affect healthy individuality. This is the most controlling unhealthy emotional tool to use to hurt others when used in wrongful content and context.
Dismay produces information. This is all this emotion was to be used for along with other emotions. It is sad to see and to become aware of about this emotional tool of the healthy effectiveness it could be versus the unhealthiness produced by it when used adversely. It does speak alot about society and what we know versus what we really do not know at all.
Dismay is a danger emotion. Not one to be frightful or anxious over but one to be cautious of. Dismay produces information about a situation and nothing more. The negative that will or could occur or the outcome of actions of dismay already enacted upon that affects others beyond self - gives information of how to proceed forward in a healthier manner or to continue the unhealthy productions of this emotion of information.
One can approach the signs and symptoms of Dismay with these tools to counteract the negative or unhealthy that comes from this intense emotion. Preventing dismay in others by listening to the words spoken or actions implemented. To be conscious of Dismay when it is heard is to evaluate it so one doesn't turn this sword of emotion upon self or point it as a gun upon another.
To plummet another so deep into nudity - where courage can not be found in self - is the worst case scenario of the verbal damages to be produced by dismaying coercions.
To keep and retain one's motivating courage and healthy hope or positives beliefs during difficulties manufactured by Dismay will take the 5 senses having a healthy awareness to recognize the presence of dismays attributes and preventing it's devastating destruction when ill equipped to handle this emotion that is loaded with information.
Dismay doesn't have to strip the core of an individual without their consenting conscious. Dismay does not have to give another one's own courage nor submissiveness without consent.
Dismay may produce what first appears to be horrific life altering and even medical health detriments of shock that create in the mind the worst case scenarios. But when facing Dismay as it spoken is to know it - hear it - face it and listen to the vocal tones of it's factual presence or unhealthy motives.
Counteract the dismay by realizing courage and logical or rational thinking to seek solutions and effective healthy Dismay resolution.
Dismayed is an extreme emotion that will take personal strength to see its existence - hear it's proposals and to touch it's healthy or unhealthy attributes and to intuitively taste and smell its supplemental properties or it's deprivation attributes.
Awesome word to realize that this word, Dismay, is more than only an action or description. It is one of self-challenge to embrace and conquer it's unhealthiness in our life to make it a healthy one instead.
For when dismay arrives or seeks to betray; one can conquer dismay by seeking positive results with beliefs of courage to take humane course of action from a word that is too often silently spoken and detrimentally suffered in solitude.
No one can dismay another except through authority or ignorance. Even then, with skillful tools and healthy awareness - both can be effectively resolved in one's life. To cling to dismaying emotions is to keep one's own courage in hiding and conceal personal relief that can be achieved when one accepts new skills are needed to learn how.
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